Hi Angel79, Wow, lot's of well thought out and caring advice. I myself will take all to heart, thank you! I have a few thoughts as well. First of all, has a doctor told you to lose weight? Or do YOU think you need to lose weight. Many times, we want so hard to please our other halves, our families and yes, even friends. Unfortunately, this is also what we see on TV, in movies, and in magazines. The reality is 115 lbs. is not healthy for everyone! Sometimes 130 lbs. is what not only is healthy for you, but what looks best on you. If indeed, you were advised by your doc to "lose a few", here's what I do. I eat 5 small healthy meals a day. I do not eat a lot of sweets. I can have them, but I don't include it it with every meal. I do not snack. If I'm hungry, instead of snacking, I have a small meal, consisting of a salad, veggies and a little protein. I stay away from carbs, but do learn which are 'good' carbs and what are 'bad' carbs. My body becomes used to having to metabolizing what I eat 5 times, so it learns to pick up the pace, so to speak.
The most important thing for me, is that I never "diet". That is a bad word for me and many other women and men. For some of us, it gives us permission to punish ourselves by making us always hungry and depriving us of foods we love. It is a way of life and lifestyle not a punishment for gaining weight. Sounds alot gentler and kinder don't you think? Remember, you care about yourself. Isn't that why you want to lose weight or need to lose weight. Be nice to yourself. I hope that this help anyone who reads this. It's not about 'dieting', nor punishing yourself for being 'bad', or even about losing weight for anyone but yourself, because you care about yourself. Good luck!
chicagosinger